Leadership is a role I naturally embody, often unwillingly. Founding my first business at 27, taught me that the true challenge of leadership is not the workload itself, but the responsibility that comes with it; the weight of decisions, the constant problem-solving, and constant underlying stress. Over time, I’ve learned that everything takes time, knowing when to push and when to surrender, learning to trust in your employees individuality, and how to ask for help. For me, leadership is about balancing femininity and masculinity with a strong dose of empathy and radical thinking, while rejecting the rigid patriarchal hierarchies that dominate many industries.

 

My leadership philosophy is to recognise individual talents and provide the freedom to experiment, fail, and thrive. Where my role is to offer support, love, a community, and motivation. Contrary to conventional wisdom, I blend business and pleasure, inviting friends, dates, and lovers into my ventures. This approach nurtures empathy, joy, and a sense of ownership. Here is effective communication paramount, fostering an environment where everyone feels empowered to express their needs, boundaries, and emotions, and learning how to solve conflicts through somatic practices that build relationships. I have come to the conclusion I am building communities and chosen cultural families, not corporate businesses. I am building a space with a deeper sense of meaning, a healthy impact on our society and creating a reality that I can be proud of.  

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What guides me is my authenticity, listening to my body, instincts, and gut feeling. I have always had a logical and straightforward mindset, which has been a great strength in the masculine world we live in, but it also kept me blocked from my emotions for much of my life. It was not until I started my own business, under immense pressure, that my feelings surfaced in ways I could no longer ignore. But it was my first girlfriend at the age of 28, that really taught me the weight, chaos and power of emotions. I feel grateful to have found somatic therapy, a path that continues to unfold as my deepest healing. It has taught me to recognize when my body or my mind is speaking, to honor the depth of knowledge my body holds, to process and express my emotions, traumas, and triggers, and how to hold space for others. The hardest challenge I am currently facing is learning how to navigate conflicts within the community that do not directly involve me, yet still affect me deeply. I learn by doing, practicing meeting these moments with patience, empathy, and openness to the duality of perspectives and realities, grounded in the belief that everyone wants to be and do good. 

 

My love language is action. I have been told if you want to be my friend you have to work with me because that is the only time you will see me. With a big dose of trust issues, my love language shows up less in words and more in actions — prioritizing quality time, physical touch, sharing food, and offering a helping hand. Inviting someone into my business world signifies trust and a desire for a meaningful relationship. Work is my life and I live to work because I love my work. My goal is to delegate more, allowing myself time to relax and practice the art of doing nothing. In the recent past, it looks more like a rollercoaster of intense work and then intense pleasure. I had often have 16 hours days, and balanced it out with a month tropical vacation. What I am currently working on is learning how to relax and prioritize spaces where I can simply be. I am realizing that my power and value are not solely measured by my productivity or creations, but by simply being myself. Often, the most effective way to change the world is to embody it. By unapologetically expressing my joy, my loneliness, my loud sensations, and my freedom. I show that through vulnerability and the release of shame and stigma, we uncover the deepest layers of connection and intimacy with ourselves and with others. There is so much more pleasure in life, and I am here to dance with the darkness and gently guide us to the light.

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Watch me build, fail, grow, and create. Watch me change the world, no wait that is too much responsibility, hehehe.  Watch me create my own world of authentic pleasure, sensations, connection, and liberation.