Leadership is a role that I naturally embody, often unwillingly. Through founding my first business, I realized that the true challenge of leadership is not merely the workload, but the immense responsibility and constant problem-solving it entails. This responsibility often inspires others to offer genuine support, recognizing the dedication I have towards the well-being of others. For me, true leadership balances empathy and progressive thinking, steering clear of traditional patriarchal and hierarchical norms.  So my journey as a leader has been progressive, empathic, and radical compared to what I have seen as "normal" in different industries.  It is a journey as you consistently learn new things about yourself and others.  

My leadership philosophy is to recognize individual talents and provide the freedom to experiment, fail, and thrive. Where my role is to offer support, love, a community, and motivation. Contrary to conventional wisdom, I blend business and pleasure, inviting friends, dates, and lovers into my ventures. This approach nurtures empathy, joy, and a sense of ownership. Here is effective communication paramount, fostering an environment where everyone feels empowered to express their needs, boundaries, and emotions, and learning how to solve conflicts through somatic practices that build relationships. I have come to the conclusion I am building communities and chosen cultural families, not corporate businesses. I am building a space with a deeper sense of meaning, a healthy impact on our society and creating a reality that I can be proud of.  

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Authenticity guides my path. I listen to my body and instincts, approaching decisions with a logical and straightforward mindset, and liberated from shame or stigma. However, understanding others people's emotions and energy is something that didn't come naturally to me and is a continuous learning process for me. Going through extensive somatic therapy has helped a lot in 2023, and I am eager to learn more!  At the end of the day, I trust my gut feeling and embrace mistakes as vital learning opportunities. Who really defines what is good and what is bad? It's all about perspective. 

My love language is action. I have been told if you want to be my friend you have to work with me because that is the only time you will see me. My love language is through actions, prioritizing quality time, physical contact, food and giving a helping hand. Inviting someone into my business world signifies trust and a desire for a meaningful relationship. Work is my life and I live to work because I love my work. My goal is to delegate more, allowing myself time to relax and practice the art of doing nothing. In the recent past, it looks more like a rollercoaster of intense work and then intense pleasure. I had often have 16 hours days, and balanced it out with a month tropical vacation. What I am currently working on is to scheduling down time, recognising that life is not solely about productivity, and prioritising enjoyment, sensations, pleasure, connection, and different forms of liberation.

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Watch me build, fail, grow, and create. Watch me take over the world, no wait that is too much responsibility, hehehe.  Watch me create my own world of true pleasure, sensations, connection, and liberation.